<P> Bess has difficulty living without Jan when he is away on the oil platform . Jan makes occasional phone calls to Bess in which they express their love and sexual desires . Bess grows needy and prays for his immediate return . The next day, Jan is severely injured in an industrial accident and is flown back to the mainland . Bess believes her prayer was the reason the accident occurred, that God was punishing her for her selfishness in asking for him to neglect his job and come back to her . No longer able to perform sexually and mentally affected by the paralysis, Jan asks Bess to find a lover . Bess is devastated and storms out . Jan then attempts to commit suicide and fails . He falls unconscious and is readmitted to hospital . </P> <P> Jan's condition deteriorates . He urges Bess to find another lover and tell him the details, as it will be as if they are together and will revitalize his spirits . Though her sister - in - law Dodo constantly reassures her that nothing she does will affect his recovery, Bess begins to believe these suggestions are the will of God and in accordance with loving Jan wholly . Despite her repulsion and inner turmoil to be with other men, she perseveres in her own sexual debasement as she believes it will cure her husband . Bess throws herself at Jan's doctor, but when he rebuffs her, she takes to picking up men off the street and allowing herself to be brutalized in increasingly cruel sexual encounters . The entire village is scandalized by these doings, and Bess is excommunicated . In the face of being cast out from her church, she proclaims, "You cannot love words . You cannot be in love with the Word . You can only love a human being ." </P> <P> Dodo and Jan's doctor agree the only way to keep Bess safe from herself is to have her committed, and as far away from her husband as possible . It is then that Bess decides to make what she thinks is the ultimate sacrifice for Jan: she unflinchingly goes out to a derelict ship full of barbarous sailors, who rape and violently attack her, to which she ultimately succumbs . The church refuses to give a funeral for her and damns her soul to hell . Unbeknownst to the church elders, Jan and his friends have substituted bags of sand for Bess's body inside the sealed coffin . Jan is later shown burying her in the ocean, in deep grief but substantially restored to health despite the doctors not having thought such possible . The film ends in magical realism as Bess's body is nowhere to be seen on the sonar, and church bells ring from on high in the sky . </P> <Ul> <Li> Emily Watson as Bess McNeill </Li> <Li> Stellan Skarsgård as Jan Nyman </Li> <Li> Katrin Cartlidge as Dodo McNeill </Li> <Li> Jean - Marc Barr as Terry </Li> <Li> Adrian Rawlins as Dr. Richardson </Li> <Li> Jonathan Hackett as Priest </Li> <Li> Sandra Voe as Mother </Li> <Li> Udo Kier as Sadistic Sailor </Li> <Li> Mikkel Gaup as Pits </Li> <Li> Roef Ragas as Pim </Li> <Li> Phil McCall as Grandfather </Li> <Li> Robert Robertson as Chairman </Li> </Ul>

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