<P> Rahm was born in Mineral Wells, Texas . While a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter - day Saints (LDS Church), he served as a missionary in France, Switzerland, and on the islands of Mauritius and Réunion between 1990 - 92 . After returning to the U.S. he studied pre-law at Brigham Young University, before changing his major to drama . In 1994, he was awarded the Irene Ryan Award for best college actor, and in 1996 dropped out of university to pursue an acting career in Hollywood . </P> <P> Rahm has stated that he is no longer a practicing Mormon . </P> <P> Rahm played Kyle McCarty, Amy Gray's cousin, for 3 seasons on Judging Amy . He joined the show in season 3, when Dan Futterman left the show . He also played Norvo Tigan, the brother of Nicole de Boer's character of Ezri Dax, in the Star Trek: Deep Space Nine episode, "Prodigal Daughter"; "psychic - guy" patient Mr. Duff in the Grey's Anatomy episode, "Save Me"; the driver in the 2001 VW Jetta ad, "Big Day"; and the groom in the Apple iDVD ad, "Elope". He also appeared in Scrubs as a patient . </P> <P> In September 2006, Rahm guest - starred in the two - part 7th season premiere of CSI: Crime Scene Investigation . On October 21, 2007, he made his first appearance as Lee McDermott, a new Wisteria Lane resident on ABC's Desperate Housewives, who is gay and has a husband, Bob Hunter (played by Tuc Watkins). </P>

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