<P> Kathryn also comes to realise that she is unhappy with herself and in her marriage . Even after confessing her unhappiness to John, he fails to understand her emotions and situation . Eventually, the situation becomes so desperate that John, in a drunken haze, kisses Nikki's mother Jennyne, for which Kathryn kicks him out of the house . In turn, John finds out that Kathryn plans on writing an erotic novel based on the sex lives of their friends from John's baseball days . She finally tells him how unhappy she is, stating that they have nothing in common anymore and that they have fallen into a repetitive rut . After John tried to win her back by unintentionally buying her a piece of jewelry identical to one he had given her years before, Kathryn tells him that she wants adventure in their lives and that they have just grown apart . </P> <P> However, John, intent on winning his wife back, finally decides give her the' adventure' she so longs for, staging a full scale dance number involving the whole family . After realising that John had gone to the effort to plan the entire event and was willing to do anything to make their marriage work, the two reconcile . </P> <P> Played by Lucas Grabeel, Toby Christopher Kennish is the older brother of Bay and the biological brother of Daphne . Toby plays guitar in a band called Guitar Face with his best friend Wilkie and Daphne's best friend, Emmett, who joins the band in "Dance Amongst Daggers ." </P> <P> Toby is an avid poker player, and it has gotten him into some trouble in the past . He tells his parents that he's playing miniature golf with his friends when, in reality, he is gambling . He has Daphne and Emmett help him win several poker games to help him get out of debt with Wilkie, but after Daphne misreads Wilkie's intentions, he loses a lot of money and is furious with Daphne . He subsequently sells his band equipment to help pay off the debt . </P>

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