<Li> Swedish: Att äta kakan och ha den kvar - To eat the cookie and still have it . </Li> <Li> Tamil: மீசைக்கும் ஆசை கூழுக்கும் ஆசை--desire to have both the moustache and to drink the soup . </Li> <Li> Turkish: Ne yardan geçer, ne serden .--Neither giving up one's lover nor one's self . </Li> <Li> Vietnamese: Được cái này mất cái kia .--You gain one thing but lose the other . </Li>

Where does the phrase have your cake and eat it too come from