<P> There is varied evidence regarding the continuity of emerging adults' relationships with parents, although most of the research supports the fact that there is moderate stability . A parent - child relationship of higher quality often results in greater affection and contact in emerging adulthood . Attachment styles tend to remain stable from infancy to adulthood . An initial secure attachment assists in healthy separation from parents while still retaining intimacy, resulting in adaptive psychological function . Changes in attachment are often associated with negative life events, as described below . </P> <P> Divorce and remarriage of parents often result in a weaker parent - child relationship, even if no adverse effects were apparent during childhood . When parental divorce occurs in early adulthood, it has a strong, negative impact on the child's relationship with their father . </P> <P> However, if parents and children maintain a good relationship throughout the divorce process, it could act as a buffer and reduce the negative effects of the experience . A positive parent - child relationship after parental divorce may also be facilitated by the child's understanding of divorce . Understanding the complexity of the situation and not dwelling on the negative aspects may actually assist a young adult's adjustment, as well as their success in their own romantic relationships . </P> <P> Despite the increasing need for autonomy that emerging adults experience, there is also a continuing need for support from parents, although this need is often different and less dependent than that of children and earlier adolescents . Many people over the age of 18 still require financial support in order to further their education and career, despite an otherwise independent lifestyle . Furthermore, emotional support remains important during this transition period . Parental engagement with low marital conflict results in better adjustment for college students . This balance of autonomy and dependency may seem contradictory, but relinquishing control while providing necessary support may strengthen the bond between parents and offspring and may even provide space for children to be viewed as sources of support . </P>

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