<Tr> <Th> Spouse (s) </Th> <Td> Melinda Gordon (m . 2005 - 2009; his death) Melinda Gordon (m . 2009 - present) </Td> </Tr> <Tr> <Th> Children </Th> <Td> Unnamed child (miscarriage, with Melinda) Aiden Lucas (son, with Melinda) </Td> </Tr> <P> Jim Clancy, played by David Conrad is Melinda's (Jennifer Love Hewitt) husband . He is the only cast member other than Hewitt to appear in every episode . </P> <P> Jim and Melinda get married and move in at the start of the first season . Jim was a paramedic and firefighter, and the two met when he rescued her from her apartment complex, which had a structural issue . Jim knew of Melinda's unique ability to communicate with ghosts at the start of the series; he helped her as much as he could, though Melinda's good friend, Andrea Marino, provided most of the aid until her death at the end of the first season . It was revealed in the pilot episode that Jim witnessed his older brother, Dan, die when they were young . After having seen Dan die and being unable to save him, Jim decides to become a paramedic . Dan attended Jim and Melinda's wedding as a ghost and conversed with Melinda during the reception . </P>

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