<P> The process for death notification in the military is a three phase process . The people doing the notifying are also in the military, and are usually in a four - member team . </P> <P> Phase 1 - This phase deals with both logistical and personal preparation such as designating who will do the talking . </P> <P> Phase 2 - This phase involves driving to the home, knocking on the door, and stating </P> <P> "I have been asked to inform you that your son has been reported dead in (city, state, country) at 0700 on August 26, 1991 . (Briefly state the circumstances .) On the behalf of the Secretary of Defense, I extend to you and your family my deepest sympathy in your great loss". </P>

Who notifies next of kin in a death