<P> Often there is more than one bridesmaid: in modern times the bride chooses how many to ask . Historically, no person of status went out unattended, and the size of the retinue was closely calculated to be appropriate to the family's social status . A large group of bridesmaids provided an opportunity for showing off the family's social status and wealth . Today, the number of bridesmaids in a wedding party is dependent on many variables, including a bride's preferences, the size of her family, and the number of attendants her partner would like to have as well . </P> <P> The male equivalent is the groomsman, also known in British English as an usher; in the United States, the role of attending to the groom has diverged from that of escorting guests to their seats, and the two positions are no longer synonymous and are often if not usually filled by different persons . </P> <P> In some cultures, such as in Norway, the Netherlands and Victorian Britain, it has been customary for bridesmaids to be small girls rather than grown women . They may carry flowers during the wedding procession and pose with the married couple in bridal photos . In modern English - speaking countries, this role is separate from that of the bridesmaid, and the small child performing it is known as a flower girl . </P> <P> Although many exceed the minimum, the bridesmaids' required duties are very limited . They are required to attend the wedding ceremony and to assist the bride on the day of the wedding . Bridesmaids in Europe and North America are often asked to assist the bride with planning the wedding and a wedding reception . In modern times, a bridesmaid often participates in planning wedding - related events, such as a bridal shower or bachelorette party, if there are any . These, however, are optional activities; according to etiquette expert Judith Martin, "Contrary to rumor, bridesmaids are not obliged to entertain in honor of the bride, nor to wear dresses they cannot afford ." If it is customary in the bride's area to have a bridesmaids luncheon, then it is hosted, and therefore organized and paid for, by the bride . A junior bridesmaid has no responsibilities beyond attending the wedding . </P>

Where did the tradition of bridesmaids and groomsmen come from