<Tr> <Th> Spouse (s) </Th> <Td> <P> Dan Benton 2017 - ((</P> Bobby Flay)) (m . 2005; div. 2015) </Td> </Tr> <P> Dan Benton 2017 - ((</P> <P> Stephanie Caroline March (born (1974 - 07 - 23) July 23, 1974) is an American actress . She is best known for her role as Alexandra Cabot in the long - running NBC series, Law & Order: Special Victims Unit . </P> <P> March was born in Dallas, Texas, the daughter of John and Laura March, and has a sister, Charlotte . She attended McCulloch Middle School in Highland Park, and Highland Park High School, where Law & Order's Angie Harmon, who also played the role of an assistant district attorney on Law & Order: Special Victims Unit attended concurrently . After her parents' divorce, her mother married Robert Derby . In 1996, March graduated from Northwestern University, where she was a member of Kappa Alpha Theta sorority . </P>

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