<P> The term shower is often assumed to mean that the expectant mother is "showered" with gifts . A related custom, called a bridal shower, may have derived its name from the custom in the 19th century for the presents to be put inside a parasol, which when opened would "shower" the bride - to - be with gifts . Alternatively the term possibly denotes a "first showing" of the new baby to the wider family and circle of friends . </P> <P> Traditionally, baby showers are given only for the family's first child, and only women are invited, though this has changed in recent years, now allowing showers being split up for different audiences: workplace, mixed - sex, and feminist . Activities at baby showers include gift - giving and playing themed games . </P> <P> Baby shower games vary, sometimes including standard games such as bingo, and sometimes being pregnancy - themed, such as "guess the mother's measurements" or "guess the baby". These games help let the close friends attending the shower bond with the mother, and enable the new family to say thanks ahead of time, figuring out who is willing and able to help them with the challenges of bringing up a child . </P> <P> According to etiquette authority Miss Manners, because the party centers on gift - giving, the baby shower is typically arranged and hosted by a close friend rather than a member of the family, since it is considered rude for families to beg for gifts on behalf of their members . However, this custom varies by culture or region and in some it is expected and customary for a close female family member to host the baby shower, often the baby's maternal grandmother . </P>

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