<P> Her carefree, sexually liberated lifestyle ultimately comes to an end when her three male suitors meet and compare notes on Nola . While Greer justifies Nola's callous behavior by claiming that she sees the three not as individuals but as a collective, Jamie and Mars become bitter over how little Nola cares for all three men . </P> <P> Realizing that Mars and Greer are too scared of losing Nola to force her to choose one of them, Jamie tells her that she must choose a single lover . Nola scoffs at this, and visits him several days later at his apartment for casual sex . Jamie rapes Nola, while mockingly asking her if he's as good sexually as Greer or Mars . Nola has an epiphany: realizing that her choices have turned Jamie against her, she decides to call his bluff . Nola dumps Greer and Mars and tells Jamie that she is ready for a monogamous relationship . Believing that her sexual activity has prevented her from committing to a single guy, Nola tells Jamie their relationship has to be celibate for the time being . After at first rejecting Nola's "no sex" decree, Jamie agrees to it . </P> <P> Nola and Jamie's reunion, however, is followed by a coda which dismantles the "happy ending" of the couple coming together . In a monologue delivered to the camera, Nola reveals that her vow of celibacy and her decision to be with Jamie exclusively was "a moment of weakness". She says that she soon began to cheat on Jamie and their relationship collapsed . Nola proudly proclaims that monogamy is a form of slavery and that her lifestyle is freedom in its purest form . The film closes with a view of Nola going to bed alone . </P> <P> Nola idealizes the freedom to have multiple sex partners that men have typically enjoyed . "A woman (or, at least Nola) can be a sexual being, doesn't have to belong to a man, and perhaps shouldn't even wish for such a thing ." Nola's voice has been described as the most revolutionary element in the film, a representation of the struggle African American women faced in society at the time . </P>

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