<Tr> <Th> Spouse (s) </Th> <Td> James Tabernacle (m . 1957--1974) Timothy Carlton (m . 1976) </Td> </Tr> <Tr> <Th> Children </Th> <Td> Tracy Tabernacle Benedict Cumberbatch </Td> </Tr> <P> Wanda Ventham (born 5 August 1935) is an English actress, known primarily for her role as Colonel Virginia Lake in the 1970s science - fiction television series UFO, and for her recurring role as Cassandra Trotter's mother Pamela Parry in the sitcom Only Fools and Horses from 1989--92 . She also appeared in two episodes of The Saint alongside Roger Moore . </P> <P> In April 2014, People magazine featured her in its "Most Beautiful People in the World" edition . </P>

Who played cassandra's mum in only fools and horses