<P> Monica met rapper Rodney "Rocko" Hill, a former SWA officer and real estate manager, shortly after Weems's suicide, a time which she described as her "weakest ." While the couple soon began dating in fall of the same year, they ended their relationship in 2004 . A few months later, Monica and Hill revived their relationship and she became pregnant with their first child . On May 21, 2005, she gave birth to their first son Rocko . Monica and Hill became engaged once again on Christmas Eve 2007, just a few days prior to the birth of their second child on January 8, 2008 . The son was named Romelo Montez Hill, named after Monica's younger brother . The pair parted ways in early 2010 . </P> <P> In June 2010, Monica met NBA player Shannon Brown when looking for someone to play the love interest in her video for "Love All Over Me". Monica later announced her engagement to Brown via her Twitter account, posting a photo of a rose - cut diamond ring . On November 22, 2010, the couple married in a secret ceremony at their Los Angeles home . The marriage, however, did not become a matter of public record until January 21, 2011, when Brown told the Hip - Hop Non-Stop TV - Show . They had a second wedding ceremony for family and friends in July 2011 . On September 3, 2013, Monica gave birth to her third child, Laiyah Shannon . </P> <Ul> <Li> Miss Thang (1995) </Li> <Li> The Boy Is Mine (1998) </Li> <Li> All Eyez on Me (2002) </Li> <Li> After the Storm (2003) </Li> <Li> The Makings of Me (2006) </Li> <Li> Still Standing (2010) </Li> <Li> New Life (2012) </Li> <Li> Code Red (2015) </Li> </Ul> <Li> Miss Thang (1995) </Li>

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