<Table> <Tr> <Td> </Td> <Td> This section does not cite any sources . Please help improve this section by adding citations to reliable sources . Unsourced material may be challenged and removed . (December 2012) (Learn how and when to remove this template message) </Td> </Tr> </Table> <Tr> <Td> </Td> <Td> This section does not cite any sources . Please help improve this section by adding citations to reliable sources . Unsourced material may be challenged and removed . (December 2012) (Learn how and when to remove this template message) </Td> </Tr> <P> In the United Kingdom, the term "maid of honour" originally referred to the female attendant of a queen . The term bridesmaid is normally used for all bridal attendants in the UK . However, when the attendant is married, or is a mature woman, the term matron of honour is often used . The influence of American English has led to the chief bridesmaid sometimes being called the maid of honour . </P> <P> In North America, a wedding party might include several bridesmaids, but the maid of honor is the title and position held by the bride's chief attendant, typically her closest friend or sister . In modern - day weddings some brides opt to choose a long - time male friend or brother as their head attendant, using the title best man or man of honor . </P>

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