<P> The phrase "RSVP, regrets only", or simply "Regrets only", is a popular modern variation that implies "if you do not reply, that will be taken as an acceptance ." </P> <P> More specifically, if most invitations can be assumed to be accepted, a "regrets only" RSVP will reduce the communication required by both the host and their guests . The phrase "Regrets only" refers to the assumption that a declination will be worded with some variation of "We regret we cannot attend ...". </P> <P> Prior to sending the RSVP invitation, the host may mail out a "save the date" card to advise the date and location of the celebration . This may be used when the event will be held a considerable time in the future and / or in a distant location to allow for travel plans, for such events as a wedding, christening, or any other important event . </P> <P> In recent years, the use of RSVP in the English language has spread outside of the discourse of highly formal correspondence and commonly figures in group emails . In this context, the acronym seems to have loosened its tie to its original meaning and is often understood simply as an abbreviation for "reply". Some writers therefore routinely use the phrase "RSVP please", which is a pleonasm . </P>

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