<Dd> <Dl> <Dd> "I am going to ask you a rather strange question (pause). The strange question is this: (pause) After we talk, you will go back to your work (home, school) and you will do whatever you need to do the rest of today, such as taking care of the children, cooking dinner, watching TV, giving the children a bath, and so on . It will be time to go to bed . Everybody in your household is quiet, and you are sleeping in peace . In the middle of the night, a miracle happens and the problem that prompted you to talk to me today is solved! But because this happens while you are sleeping, you have no way of knowing that there was an overnight miracle that solved the problem . (pause) So, when you wake up tomorrow morning, what might be the small change that will make you say to yourself,' Wow, something must have happened--the problem is gone!"'? </Dd> </Dl> </Dd> <Dl> <Dd> "I am going to ask you a rather strange question (pause). The strange question is this: (pause) After we talk, you will go back to your work (home, school) and you will do whatever you need to do the rest of today, such as taking care of the children, cooking dinner, watching TV, giving the children a bath, and so on . It will be time to go to bed . Everybody in your household is quiet, and you are sleeping in peace . In the middle of the night, a miracle happens and the problem that prompted you to talk to me today is solved! But because this happens while you are sleeping, you have no way of knowing that there was an overnight miracle that solved the problem . (pause) So, when you wake up tomorrow morning, what might be the small change that will make you say to yourself,' Wow, something must have happened--the problem is gone!"'? </Dd> </Dl> <Dd> "I am going to ask you a rather strange question (pause). The strange question is this: (pause) After we talk, you will go back to your work (home, school) and you will do whatever you need to do the rest of today, such as taking care of the children, cooking dinner, watching TV, giving the children a bath, and so on . It will be time to go to bed . Everybody in your household is quiet, and you are sleeping in peace . In the middle of the night, a miracle happens and the problem that prompted you to talk to me today is solved! But because this happens while you are sleeping, you have no way of knowing that there was an overnight miracle that solved the problem . (pause) So, when you wake up tomorrow morning, what might be the small change that will make you say to yourself,' Wow, something must have happened--the problem is gone!"'? </Dd> <P> Whilst relatively easy to state, the miracle question requires considerable skill to ask well . The question must be asked slowly with close attention to the person's non-verbal communication to ensure that the pace matches the person's ability to follow the question . Initial responses frequently include a sense of "I don't know ." To ask the question well this should be met with respectful silence to give the person time to fully absorb the question . </P>

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