<P> Finn originated as a character who "walks a fine line between following his dreams and balancing what other people expect of him ." Monteith's former acting coach said: "You've got to be incredibly smart to understand how dim Finn can be", though Monteith appreciated the fact that Finn is more than "just a dumb jock". He has admitted that he is sometimes frustrated by Finn's "convenient dumb - guy writing", and commented, "I think every actor wants to be stretched . But it's also important to realize that whatever we're doing works . I realize that this happens to an actor about once every ten lifetimes . To be on a show that's this good, it's rarified air ." Finn has matured during his run on the series--in January 2011, Monteith noted that he had "grown up a little bit" and become "a little wiser". He later expanded, "Finn's not dumb anymore, really, he's just naive . The opposite of me . I love Finn's optimism . He's very idealistic; he wants a good girl to love him, and he chases after what he wants in life--that I can relate to ." The actor hoped that in time his character would bbe able to grow and mature more . He said in an interview with MTV, "I think the harder it is for him, the better, you know? I think Finn has a lot of growing up to do and I think that Finn has a lot of struggle left for him . I think dealing with a lot of his dad stuff, the passing of his father and dealing with the unrequited love all of a sudden from Rachel, I think the more trouble he goes through, the more interesting it is for me as an actor ." </P> <P> Over the course of his run on the series, Finn's primary relationship has been with the glee club's main singer, Rachel . In a meeting with the press at PaleyFest2011, which occurred when the characters were in the middle of a months - long breakup, Monteith commented: "That's a very important central relationship to the show . I think it's important, and I think they're endgame, but I can't be sure of when . I try not to get too attached to the pairing, so I can focus on storyline that does come my way ." Falchuk said of the Finn--Rachel relationship ahead of the third season, "We're not interested in breaking them up this year but at the same time the challenge is they are graduating, they are different kinds of people and where does that take you?" During the PaleyFest2011 Glee cast interview, Monteith said, "There are a lot of people who really, really want Finn and Rachel to be together . But at the same time, I think that it's really interesting when they're clearly in love with each other but they're apart . I think it makes for good television ." He added, "I think there's a different dynamic to Finn with Quinn and with Rachel, and single ." </P> <P> Finn is introduced as quarterback of the William McKinley High School football team . He is blackmailed into joining the school glee club, New Directions, by its faculty director Will Schuester (Matthew Morrison). Despite being ostracized by the other football players, including his best friend Puck (Mark Salling), Finn comes to enjoy being in the club . This worries his girlfriend, head cheerleader Quinn Fabray (Dianna Agron), so she joins New Directions to keep an eye on him, afraid that lead singer Rachel Berry's (Lea Michele) interest in Finn may be reciprocated . Quinn discovers that she is pregnant, as she had cheated on Finn with Puck, but tells Finn that the baby is his, though they never actually had intercourse . She subsequently moves in with Finn and his mother Carole (Romy Rosemont) after her parents find out about her pregnancy and evict her . When Rachel figures out that Puck is the father and informs Finn, he attacks Puck, breaks up with Quinn, and quits the glee club in a fury; but after cheerleading coach Sue Sylvester (Jane Lynch) sabotages the glee club's first show choir competition, he is able to set aside his anger and return to lead the club to victory . He and Rachel briefly date, but he ends the relationship to concentrate on his own well - being . By the time Finn realizes that he truly does want to be with Rachel, he is chagrined to discover that she has started dating Jesse St. James (Jonathan Groff), the lead singer of rival glee club Vocal Adrenaline . Cheerleader Santana Lopez (Naya Rivera) offers to take Finn's virginity to improve her social status and his, and he accepts, but afterward he regrets having done so and claims to Rachel that he did not go through with it; she, in turn, falsely claims to have had sex with Jesse . By the time the club reach the next stage of show choir competitions, Jesse has betrayed Rachel and broken up with her . As Finn and Rachel are about to go onstage, Finn tells her that he loves her; although they lose the competition, they become a couple and continue dating well into the next school year . </P> <P> Glee club member Kurt Hummel (Chris Colfer), who is gay, has a longstanding crush on Finn, and sets up his father Burt (Mike O'Malley) with Finn's mother Carole in the hopes of spending more time with him . Finn initially opposes the relationship, worried that his mother will forget about his late father, but relents when Burt tells Finn that he loves Carole, though Kurt is dismayed by the deepening rapport between Finn and Burt . Finn and his mother eventually move in with the Hummels, but when Finn, uncomfortable about rooming with Kurt who he knows has a crush on him but will not admit it, uses a homophobic slur against Kurt during an argument, Burt throws him out . Finn is ashamed, and makes amends by standing up for Kurt when he is victimized by bullies . The following fall, the bullying against Kurt has intensified, but Finn refuses to stand up for him this time, concerned that it may jeopardize his position as quarterback . When their parents marry, Finn uses his best man speech as an opportunity to apologize to Kurt, which begins a brotherly bond between the two . In the spring, the two of them team up to arrange the funeral of Sue Sylvester's sister, Jean (Robin Trocki), when Sue is too upset to do so, after which Sue ends her long - running campaign to destroy the glee club . </P>

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