<Li> Bridegrooms of Scottish descent often wear full Highland dress, as do their groomsmen . </Li> <Li> In Norway the bridegroom may wear a folk costume like the gákti among Northern Sami or bunad, a dark - colored suit or a tuxedo . </Li> <P> In Anglo - American weddings, the bridegroom will often give a short speech after the reception, thanking the guests for attending, complimenting the bride, thanking members of the wedding party, and possibly sharing a "roast toast", in which he makes jokes at the expense of himself or a member of his party . His speech will normally be followed by one from the best man . </P> <P> The first mention of the term bridegroom dates to 1604, from the Old English brȳdguma, a compound of brȳd (bride) and guma (man, human being, hero). It is related to the Old Saxon brūdigomo, the Old High German brūtigomo, the German Bräutigam, and the Old Norse brúðgumi . </P>

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