<P> Contradictions are the core concept of relational dialectics . It is the dynamic interplay between unified oppositions . A contradiction is formed "whenever two tendencies or forces are interdependent (unity) yet mutually negate one another (negation)". For example, in a relationship one can simultaneously desire intimacy and distance . </P> <P> Totality suggests that contradictions in a relationship are part of a unified whole and cannot be understood in isolation . In other words, the dialectics cannot be separated and are intrinsically related to each other . For example, the tension between dependence and interdependence cannot be separated from the tension between openness and privacy--both work to condition and define the other . </P> <P> Process Relational dialectics must be understood in terms of social processes . Movement, activity, and change are functional properties (Rawlins, 1989). For example, instances such as an individual fluctuating between disclosure and secretiveness . In addition, the individual may move between periods of honest and open communication (Miller, 2002, 2005). </P> <P> Praxis is a philosophical term for the concept of' practical behavior' or sometimes' the experience of practicing' . In praxis the dialectic tensions are created and re-created through the active participation and interaction . In other words, the practical experience of having a relationship exposes one to the imposition of the needs and value of another . As the relationship endures one's own needs and values become apparent . Praxis focuses on the practical choices individuals make in the midst of the opposing needs and values (dialectical tensions). In turn, the choices and actions themselves create, re-create, and change the nature of the relationship and hence the dialectical tensions themselves . </P>

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