<P> Once Nellyville was released in the United States on June 25, 2002, radio programmers started playing "Dilemma". By July 2002, the track had reached the top ten of the Billboard Hot 100 based on airplay alone . This prompted Nelly to release it as the album's second single, although it was not the original plan . The single was released on July 30, 2002 . The decision affected the early plans for Destiny's Child members, whose members were held on hiatus to pursue solo album releases . As part of their strategy, each member's albums were to be staggered with member Beyoncé Knowles releasing in October 2002 and Rowland's album expected in early 2003 . Their management rescheduled the dates: Rowland eventually released her debut solo album, Simply Deep, on October 28, 2002, ahead of Knowles, which caused her to move and push back her album release to a June 2003 date . "Dilemma" was released as the first single from the album, which served as a propeller for her solo career . "Dilemma" is Rowland's first international solo single away from the group: she had previously appeared on R&B singer Avant's single "Separated", which was released in the United States in July 2000 . </P> <P> "Dilemma" was generally well received by critics . AllMusic reviewer Jason Birchmeier noted it as one of "three well - calculated, standout" tracks in the album . In her review for Simply Deep, Caroline Sullivan of The Guardian wrote: "Thanks to the ubiquitous Dilemma, a song that practically peeled off its clothes on the spot ." </P> <P> "Dilemma" was nominated for Best Rap / Sung Performance and Record of the Year at the 45th Annual Grammy Awards on 23 February 2003, winning the former . </P> <P> "Dilemma" is the most successful song of Nelly's career, giving him his first number - one single in many countries, such as the United Kingdom, Australia, Belgium, Germany, Ireland, the Netherlands, and Switzerland . It is also the most successful single of Rowland's career, alongside the worldwide dance hit "When Love Takes Over". It is not only Rowland's most successful solo single in the United States, but also in the United Kingdom, with 800,000 copies sold as of November 2011 . </P>

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